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The mother of the bride is
expected to look aptly festive for what is
ostensibly a happy occasion,
even if she thinks the groom leaves something
to be desired. However, outfits for both the
mother of the bride and the mother of the groom
should complement each
other.
For a traditional wedding, you
will want to rely on dressy fabrics, such as
silk, taffeta, polyester
and brocade, to name a few. At more casual
weddings, a breezy chiffon is fine. Your picks
should
offer understated elegance for the wedding and
translate as perfectly suitable choices for
many
other special occasions. Look for luxe fabrics
that are enhanced with bead, pearl and
crystal
embellishments.
The
dresses are usually full-length, and
often come with matching jackets or
boleros. If not,
make sure you have a pretty shawl or dressy
sweater. If you can't see yourself in
anything
other than a suit, make sure it's memorable
with a metallic tint, sparkly adornment or
shiny
threads.
The time of day
certainly can dictate length. If the
bridesmaids are wearing tea-length dresses
and the wedding is before 6 p.m., you can opt
for a cocktail suit or dress. Mixing lengths
can
also look awkward in photos.
As for color, coordinate your
colors with the rest of the bridal
party, or
choose a hue that will
enable your individuality and personal style to
stand out. Keep in mind that it's important
to
select a color and style that are not too
distracting, based on what the rest of the
wedding
party is wearing, especially if you'll be
taking tons of photos as a
group.
For a fall wedding, you can go
with jewel tones. With the bridesmaids wearing
mocha,
something in deep purple or even royal blue or
burgundy would be complementary. You should
avoid cream, ivory or champagne colors because
they're too close to the bride's choice.
And
black, even though it's appropriate for
eveningwear, traditionally signifies a
disapproval of the
marriage.
For winter weddings,
you'll want something
in a more
somber color such as burgundy, blue,
gray, black or just about any other wintry hue.
Many mothers of the bride go for champagne
or
tawny, but for nuptials in January, go for one
on the darker end of the
spectrum.
For figure flattery: An empire
waist is always complimentary. Rouching can
camouflage a tummy
bulge. A sweetheart neckline draws attention
away from a big bottom.
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